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Today's Topics:
 

                             Re: Fresh Tendrils
                               Ty Cobb single
                   Re: Hey Sommsters.......remember this:
                               Soundgarden BBS
                             I just noticed....
                          Thousand email addresses
                           Re: I just noticed....
                      summer nights, and long warm days
                              Graceful Goodbye
                              The Roots do BHS
                              posters on walls
                              Spread the music
                                YES AH YES...
                            Re: A day in the life
                             Kim Would Be Proud
                                Time magazine
                                a vigil idea
                              Re: a vigil idea
                Re: Soundgarden Digest, Saturday, 12 Apr 1997
                                 Rethinking
                               come to #somms
                               opinion please
                                 sorry.....
                               Am I too young?
                                  a picture
 The Wreck Is Going Down - The roots, rise, peak, and fall of grunge (Essay)
                Re: ...the garden of sound is silent today...
                               St. Pete Times
                             Re: come to #somms
                 Re: Soundgarden Digest, Monday, 14 Apr 1997
                   Re: Hey Sommsters.......remember this:

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From: sknauf@ibm.net
Subject: Re: Fresh Tendrils

At 01:11 PM 4/13/97 -0700, Dave wrote:
>A while back some one suggested that 4th of July was never played live, 
>and that was proved wrong. What I want to know is if Fresh Tendrils was 
>ever played live. 

Fresh Tendrils was played live at the Armory (NY) 1994. An excellent
version with Natasha on keyboards.



sabrina


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From: sknauf@ibm.net
Subject: Ty Cobb single

Could someone please tell me why Ty Cobb has just been released as a single
in Australia???
There are 3 b-sides (incl BDS and Rhinosaur)...

??????????

Aussie sommsters... it's up to you again ;-)


sabrina


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From: Mercyhurst Prep Library <mercylib@erie.net>
Subject: Re: Hey Sommsters.......remember this:

Carolyn, thanks for saying something I already started to say on Friday!!!
Listers, remember that no one has died--we should be thankful for that!  A
member of a fave band of mine died a few years ago and it's a shocking thing
to go thru!  WE STILL HAVE THEIR MUSIC!  Also, we still live audio and
video, we have stuff off of MTV and MuchMusic and some stuff from Japan tv.
This band will be remembered, and as someone else today hinted, you never
know--maybe they'll reunite in the future.  Maybe they are burnt out right
now.  Get a grip, chin up!  Who knows what'll happen...and mark my words,
Chris has something in the offing!

later....deb


>Yes, a great band has broken up. 
>Sure, that means we'll never have a chance to see them in concert again.
>And yes, sadly, they'll never produce another new album.
>But THEIR MUSIC HASN'T DIED!
>
>We still have the music, folks.  That's BETTER than just having memories
when someone or something we loved has died.  Not only do we have memories
(I'll never forget the two times I recently saw them in concert).......we
actually have something concrete that can never be taken away!  MUSIC!  :-)  
>
>No band will go on forever.  But their music, to their fans, will.  Don't
forget that.  
>Thinking of you all,
>Carolyn the Mostly-optimistic Fan
>I awoke just the same as any other day..........
>
>


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From: Alice Childress <el266071@hvcc.edu>
Subject: Soundgarden BBS


	Is anyone else having trouble posting on the Soundgarden bbs
thinger?  It won't let me...I musta tried it ten times..hopefully, it
didnt mess up and post thesame thing ten times when I thought it wasnt
posting..i HATE when that happens.


"Give me my money back, you bitch." - Ben Folds Five
		Mostly Harmless (bbs.cowland.com/giuseppe)



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From: Mercyhurst Prep Library <mercylib@erie.net>
Subject: I just noticed....

I just noticed something popping up on the list that I've experienced with
other bands--yes, in being a music fan since 82, I have actually liked other
bands besides Sgarden!!;) and unfortunately it's a sentiment I never understood.

I'm noticing a few of us thinking and saying that Sgarden OWES us as fans
SOMETHING.  Sorry, no they don't.  No band OWES its fans anything besides
the best music they can write, and if Sgarden felt it would be compromising
their integrity to continue as a band, who are we to question them???  Or to
demand that they owe us anything?  

If it's an explanation you feel we are owed, that may come in time, but
again, do bands explain every move they make to their fans?  

I feel it's safe to say the guys were getting burnt out to the point of no
return.  And I also agree w/ Seth that we chouldn't conjecture it had
anything to do with Ben.  My guess is it was just alot of stuff all piling
up.  Remember all the list talk about how thin and sickly Chris looked?  I'd
much rather have him healthy and happy in Seattle than getting sick trying
to meet all the demands of the road.  They've never been real happy about
touring anyway.  No one knows everything that's going on in their lives, so
we really should just be patient with them and see how their own psyches
respond to this break-up.

later....deb


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From: ebora87@eelab.newpaltz.edu (Alexander E. Ebora)
Subject: Thousand email addresses

As I checked my inbox today, I found there are more than a thousand
messages. I said to myself, ooh this is some major reading task. It turns
out that I was wrong. I got all the headers of a thousand Sommsters and
nothing more. So I have to delete a thousand messages and wait for new ones
to come. This was made possible by a power outage during the weekend which
screwed the Network.

Sorry if this off topic.


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From: Slave4cc@aol.com
Subject: Re: I just noticed....



Your so right Deb, Soundgarden doesnt *owe* us a dam thing!  They gave and
gave and gave to us...look at how Chris is just screaming his heart out on
jcp on motorvision! or any friggin song he sings, bleeeeeeeeeeeeeeed your
heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeart out!  It takes some friggin energy to do that!.....all
the guys poured their hearts and souls into it.....you cant do that forever.
 The first thing I noticed on the week in rock review, was Chris's eyes.  He
looked soooooo tired and burnt, yet sooooo handsome in his tux!  (I didnt see
Susan, where was she?)

Yea, you are right.  why cant those fans be thankful for what they gave
instead of being resentful for what they cant give anymore.

We should love & respect them now more than ever!!
Carol

In a message dated 97-04-14 11:48:01 EDT, you write:

<< Subj:	I just noticed....
 Date:	97-04-14 11:48:01 EDT
 From:	mercylib@erie.net (Mercyhurst Prep Library)
 To:	somms@MIT.EDU
 
 I just noticed something popping up on the list that I've experienced with
 other bands--yes, in being a music fan since 82, I have actually liked other
 bands besides Sgarden!!;) and unfortunately it's a sentiment I never
understood.
 
 I'm noticing a few of us thinking and saying that Sgarden OWES us as fans
 SOMETHING.  Sorry, no they don't.  No band OWES its fans anything besides
 the best music they can write, and if Sgarden felt it would be compromising
 their integrity to continue as a band, who are we to question them???  Or to
 demand that they owe us anything?  
 
 If it's an explanation you feel we are owed, that may come in time, but
 again, do bands explain every move they make to their fans?  
 
 I feel it's safe to say the guys were getting burnt out to the point of no
 return.  And I also agree w/ Seth that we chouldn't conjecture it had
 anything to do with Ben.  My guess is it was just alot of stuff all piling
 up.  Remember all the list talk about how thin and sickly Chris looked?  I'd
 much rather have him healthy and happy in Seattle than getting sick trying
 to meet all the demands of the road.  They've never been real happy about
 touring anyway.  No one knows everything that's going on in their lives, so
 we really should just be patient with them and see how their own psyches
 respond to this break-up.
 
 later....deb
 
 
 

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From: Vince Varkey <varkey@utdallas.edu>
Subject: summer nights, and long warm days

What more can I say. I have a million different thoughts running through 
my head over last week's news. Right now, I am ok. I still feel extremely 
disappointed and feel a sense of loss over this but I am doing surprisingly
well. I have moved on. Either I am stronger than I thought or I am in serious 
fucking denial. I had always thought that whenever SG would break up, that I 
would be depressed for weeks and that I would never be the same. But that isn't 
the case. What does that say about me as a fan? 

Soundgarden literally changed the entire way I looked at music. With 
Superunknown, my eyes were opened. I related to Chris Cornell. Here was a guy 
who tended to be a loner, has depressed thoughts, just like us all. For the 
first time in my life, here was a man who was just like me or you. I think we 
can all relate to him and his music. He was one of us. He didn't give a 
fuck about the money or any of the that. Although some people thrusted the 
mantle of a rock star on him, he never seemed comfortable with it. Anyway, 
although I am saddened by the breakup of the greatest rock and roll band in the 
modern era, my immense respect for the guys has grown more because of it. This 
obviously was not an easy decision for them to make. But I guess it was 
something they had to do. 

When people look at the history of rock and roll 10 or 20 years from now, 
how will Soundgarden fit into that picture? Will they be appreciated for 
their great work or will people dismiss them as just another band who 
broke up? Although Soundgarden had respect from their musical peers, they were 
never widely accepted by the mainstream for better or for worse. However, I 
have a feeling that the great bands that will emerge in the next decade will 
all list Soundgarden as one of their biggest influences. People will 
speak of them in reverence. 

About the future of Chris, Kim, Ben and Matt: Who knows. A lot of 
speculation has generated about a solo record, Devilhead etc. I think it 
would be best for all of us to simply be patient and wait for something 
official to come forth. I don't think we want our hearts broken again. 

The musical landscape currently looks incredibly barren with SG out of 
the picture doesn't it? Damn. 

They gave me something to believe in.

- -vince

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From: Cathy Hoyle <cathy@cobaltmoon.com>
Subject: Graceful Goodbye

So I guess I was one of the lucky ones....I saw the bands many times (5
times on the last tour) including hanging out with them at two of the
shows in Phoenix and Los Angeles; And I worked with them professionally.
They are great guys and I can't really understand the reason to be sad
to the point of (to quote another) 'throwing up'. You know they will all
do solo stuff.  What is the alternative? them turning into The Eagles
and giving knowing when to retire - I say props to them for knowing when
to say goodbye...gracefully...

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From: "Anna Mehrer" <anna.mehrer@telekomus.com>
Subject: The Roots do BHS

Hello all in Soundgardenland,

In light of the pain we've all been experiencing, I thought I would share =

with you a humorous anecdote.  This weekend at the Beck show at 
University of Chicago, a group named "The Roots" had one member do a 
solo of sorts.  This man did some amazing vocal manipulation, with  
which he was able to recreate the sound of a DJ sampling various 
distorted voices, sounds, scratching (vinyl), etc. (at least that's what =
he 
was telling the audience--that he was purely solo). At any rate, in this 
medley of his he did a one minute rendition of "Black Hole Sun" which, of =

course, had me cheering.  Although instead of singing "wash away the 
rain," he was singing "wipe away the rain" :)   Of course, before he did 
this, he announced the name  Soundgarden (woohoo!).
heh.  It was all very entertaining stuff. 

'til next time:
Anna

p.s. If anyone is interested in getting together in Chicago, please let =
me 
know by Wednesday.

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From: Luck's Last Match <toybox@email.unc.edu>
Subject: posters on walls

I know the it's over thread is getting kinda long (it is deserved, though,
no matter how short the popular attention span is--i mean, twelve years
comes to an end, and people get tired of talking about it in less than a
week.  sheesh.)  but i wanted to say something about posters.  my posters
will stay on my walls--in fact, i may even buy more.  i think jimi hendrix
put it best:  "the smiling portrait of you is still hanging on my frowning
wall"  take it upon yourself to see if you can connect the poster thing  
w/ the rest of
the verse:  "it really doesn't bother me that much at all
		it's just the ever falling dust
		that makes it so hard for me to see
		(and i can't remember the rest!)"

And for all tea party fans, i just joined the tea party list, and the
first digest i got had a discussion about save me being about hamlet.
quite interesting.  

All these dying days....  
 
laters.  -j


"Why settle for the spark when you can set the whole world on fire?"
- -Sonny Corinthos, General Hospital.


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From: DunWei@aol.com
Subject: Spread the music

Hi guys,
When I first heard, I was hoping it was a very belated April Fool's Day
joke...But when it was confirmed, I informed all my co-workers and one of
them actually made fun of me!  This kid has the SOMMS CD, all the albums,
etc., and he was laughing cuz the guys broke up!  Then the fat moron had the
balls to quip: "Hey Dun, I'll come down at lunch and make sure you haven't
hung yourself, ha ha ha!".  What a stupid flying jizz-lapper!!  I told my
girlfriend, and she was more sympathetic, but not by much.
(sigh)...I at least find solace in my fellow SG-ites...
It will never be the same, but we can look forward to solo projects, side
projects, etc.  Better Kim on a Pigeonhed CD, or Chris on a soundtrack, or
Matt on a Prodigy or whoever sample (yechhh...maybe not...) and Ben in
Devilhead than NOTHING AT ALL.  Ya know?
Well, we'll always have their music to remember them by.  In that area, how
about we start a tape tree?  I was thinking about it this way;  Since SG
broke up (sigh...), there obviously won't be any more SG
concerts/albums/songs (at least in the near future) to sustain us.  So, I
propose we develop a SG database.  Kinda a library of everything they ever
did.  Most people have the studio albums, but not everyone has the rarer
stuff (Songs from the Superunknown EP, b-sides,etc.) and I don't know anyone
who has ALL their concerts on tape.  So I was thinking we could develop this
tape tree/database thing where we can all eventually have all, or most, of
their stuff.  Sort of a concert library, etc.  I dunno, if I'm being stupid
just flame me.  I'm still in shock...

In a totally different category, I was pondering this:  SG fell prey to the
teeny-bopper locusts that always swarm onto a band when they become famous.
 This happened with SuperUnknown.  Having a buff/super-fly frontman who ran
around with his shirt off didn't exactly dispel them either.  So all these
little makeup-caked 15 year old girls who only knew SG for BHS or Spoonman
would clamor about the band :
"Oh yeah--Soundgarden...They have that hot singer, right?  Yeah, I love Black
hole sun, and that "Alive" song, and that "come as you are" song too!  I
heard that the singer and Kurt Cobain are brothers, is that true?"--this is
an actual quote said to yours truly by a "woo!" girl.  I usually don't look
upon hitting females favorably, but in this case...
Anyways, my question is this:  Seeing as teeny boppers loved SG for 1) Chris
and 2) BHS, do you think that having Chris do BHS solo at concerts worsened
the problem?  I dunno, but maybe.  I get really pissed at trendies (tenny
boppers and preppies who suddenly switched from khakis to thrift-store
flannel when they saw it on MTV) buy all or most of the tix to a concert, and
the real fans get shafted out of a show.  
Just thinkin....

Well, reply/flame away if it's yer pleasure.
Dun-Wei


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From: Fender <spoonman@cyberdude.com>
Subject: YES AH YES...

        Well, I can't say that I'm not pissed bu the splitting of SG, but
the music will always be with us and so will the memories.  RIGHT FANS!!  I
think I'm one of the biggest SG fans to ever graze upon this earth and my
"friends" laughed when they heard the news about SG so kicked the shit outta
them.  DONE AND DONE!  HEH HEH HEH.  Well, I wanna get the CD
BADMOTORFINGER, I still havn't got it!!  CURSE ME!!  C-YA L*ter!
Right now I'm Down on the Upside, 
But soon I'll be Ultramega OK. 
Although the future is Superunknown, 
They'll always be Louder Than Love 
You get so much Fopp 
In this Screaming Life, 
All you can do is show everyone your Badmotorfinger.



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From: tonerkin <tonerkin@pipeline.com>
Subject: Re: A day in the life

>Eliza wrote:
> like everything else in life, we want
>things to stay the way they were, for it to be the way it was...and it the
>hardest thing in the world to accept that it can't and won't...
   Eliza is right on this point and I think it is an important point to
make.  We all our saddened by the fact that there will not longer be a band
called Soundgarden. BUTT there are four talented musicians who are not gone
and I hope return to thrill us with their music once again.  I am old
enough to have lived through many many band breakups. The worse was John
Bonham dying. I knew that was the end of Led Zeppelin. And I, like some of
you had tickets to a LZ show that was a makeup show(the last show Zep did
in Chicago they only got through 1/4 of it before Jimmy Page got sick. Bad
ribs they said...bad heroin I say)  After Zep broke up(and I went through
depression and withdrawal) I went to see Jimmy Page on every solo outing
and/or with the ill fated bands he toured with. And I went to see every
solo tour by Robert Plant. No, they were not the almighty Led Zeppelin but
you know what?  I enjoyed the hell out of every one of those shows.  I was
still seeing Jimmy Page play the guitar and Robert Plant could still wail
and make my heart flutter.  And in 1995 when Plant/Page toured together it
was terrific. No, Jimmy can't play as fast as he once could and maybe
Robert is keeping his shirt buttoned and not hitting all the high notes but
I did hear the thunder and glory of Led Zeppelin songs being played by the
masters themselves! And it was satisfying and wonderful.  What I am trying
to say is that if you are a fan of Soundgarden than you  are a fan of
Kim,Chris, Ben and Matt and you will keep your ears and your minds open to
what they are going to offer us hopefully in the near future.  No, they
won't be Soundgarden BUTT someday, somewhere you will hear Rusty Cage again
or Fell on Black Days played by Chris or Kim or even hear Matt play JCP. 
  For things to stay exactly the same is to become stagnate.  Soundgarden
has always been like a rushing powerful river and instead of their music
and creative energy being damned up and becoming  stagnate.....they have
branched off into four streams traveling new paths. Maybe they will join
together again down the way or maybe whatever they choose to do will become
itself another great river.  Wherever the path leads I hope it is fresh and
invigorating to them as musicians and to us as fans.  
W.O.O flying away, Sabrina!!   toni

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From: "Aaron \"McCheese\" Beyer" <beyera@mhd1.moorhead.msus.edu>
Subject: Kim Would Be Proud

To relieve depression:

	READ "RHYTHM AND NOISE" by Theodore Gracyk (Duke University
press). The book is an interesting look at rock from a philosophical
perspective.  It will bring together your thoughts wonderfully by focusing
on music*** (as opposed to lyrics).  Unlike other books on music/pop
culture, this puts forth the notion that rock's (and it's predessor
rock-n-roll) primary medium is recording.  Also, rock has it's foundation
in Timbre (ie. Noise).  Other music has focused on the volume(amps),
pitch(frequency), and time(duration); whereas rock as we know it has a
large focus on Timbre(Wave Forms).

	That is exactly what Soundgarden is to me, beyond all the *pretty*
melodies, Soundgarden was the ***masters*** of Timbre.  Literally, the
sounds (beyond the songs) will forever have a impact on rock as we know
it.  With all of the means of studio production, they crafted sounds that
were truly inspired, a true Garden of Sound.  No one can point out one
peticular Soundgarden "sound".

	Tracks like "Applebite", "4th of July", "Flower" . . . will NEVER
become as boring.  We'll always remember the tune and the lyrics, but our
brain can't remember the Timbre . . . and it's one thing that lives on .
. . and keeps us coming back.  

                                             Mayor McCheese
XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
1010011010


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From: tonerkin <tonerkin@pipeline.com>
Subject: Time magazine

  In this week's Time Magazine. The one with "The Most Influential People
In America 1997" as it's cover. BTW, Trent Reznor is one of those<<no
comment> In the people section there is a small article and picture about
Soundgarden breaking up. =20


 "Maybe some of them started to feel cheerful"- Belinda Luscombe

   It hasn't been a happy year for grunge fams. First Courtney Love gets
herself all glammed up, and now this.  The seminal Seattle rockers
<bold>SOUNDGARDEN</bold>, one of the first bands to break out of the
Northwest, have split up. The terse announcement from their record
company gave no reason, not even the usual pat of 'creative differences,'
 While never as high-profile as Nirvana or Pearl Jam, the Grammy-winning
band sold more than 20 million records. <italic>Down on the
upside</italic>, their last album, reached number 2 on the charts. The
band which had recently finished touring, hasn't taken a summer off from
one another since 1988. 'I heard they were having heavy arguments and
stuff at their (last) show, but I didn't believe it,' Joey Ramone, no
stranger to band-member infighting, told online service Addicted to
noise,'I thought they'd have to be nuts to break up now.'  Or just tired
of the angst.                                         For want it's
worth....which isn't much.=20

   One more thing.  In the local Chicago paper (Sun Times) on last
Thursday there on the top of the front page was a picture of CC with the
news of the breakup with details inside. I was surprised that it was so
prominently displayed.  How was the media treatment where you all live???
 toni

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From: Slave4cc@aol.com
Subject: a vigil idea

Hey I wonder if we can all get berevement air fare to fly to Seattle to hold
a Sommster vigil maybe at the Sound Garden sculpture. When the airline asks
for the death certificate, we can just show them any article in a paper or
magazine!! ;)

I wanna be in a vigil!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

(hope I spelled that right)


Carol


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From: Caryn Rose <clr@nwlink.com>
Subject: Re: a vigil idea

On Mon, 14 Apr 1997 Slave4cc@aol.com wrote:

> Hey I wonder if we can all get berevement air fare to fly to Seattle to hold
> a Sommster vigil maybe at the Sound Garden sculpture. When the airline asks
> for the death certificate, we can just show them any article in a paper or
> magazine!! ;)

this is the most ludicrous thing i've ever heard of.  kurt's vigil at
seattle center turned into a media circus; the vigil held there when jerry
garcia died was also invaded by the media.  thank god we can mourn in
peace, and with each other.  

hold your own vigil.  on saturday, when everything finally became just too
much for me, i recorded some songs on a tape and drove down to the beach
and played "seasons" and the acoustic "like suicide" over and over and
over again and finally got it out of my system.  and said goodbye to
soundgarden. 

point being:  you don't need to go anywhere in particular to hold a vigil.
hold your own, in your room, with candles and incense and really really
really LOUD music.  the point is the same.

- --caryn


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From: Carlo Medina <cmedina@library.ucla.edu>
Subject: Re: Soundgarden Digest, Saturday, 12 Apr 1997

To the guy who said that SG broke up because they couldn't stand 
to be around each other:  that's sort of right.  But to say that 
they weren't "together" as a aband based on album pictures, that's 
where you are wrong.  First of all, just as you say Pearl Jam are 
close together in their album photos is probably just an act, 
distance in photos can be an act as well.  You can't even tell who 
the guys are (well, almost, but true fans could tell) in the 
Superunknown CD.  Yet they were still together then for sure.  And 
you don't make an album like Down on the Upside unless your all 
firing on the same cylinders.  Sure one or two of the guys gets 
writing credit on a song, but that's for the sake of how they will 
split up the revenue.  Truth is:  ALL MUSICIANS contribute, and 
even if Cornell writes a killer riff and lyrics like he did in 
Blow Up...Cameron and Shepherd still come up with their own stuff 
and it all adds up.  I think Billy Corgan is the only one who does 
almost EVERYTHING on his bands' albums...

Yes, towards the end they were having personal problems.  But hey, 
can you imagine working with the same people for 12 years?  I can 
count the number of people on ONE HAND that I still talk to after 
12 years.  Hell, I can count 'em on two fingers.  And I didn't 
have to see 'em very often, unlike bandmembers.  The fact that 
they were together for so long (yes, I realize Hiro was there for 
1/2 the time, and Ben the other 1/2, but still) is a testament to 
lasting camaraderie that produced excellent music.  A band in 
dissent cannot produce great music, so there is a somewhat silver 
lining on an otherwise dreary cloud.  Better that they go out in 
style rather than beat a dead horse...

Soundgarden is dead.  LONG LIVE SOUNDGARDEN!  LONG LIVE 
SOUNDGARDEN!  LONG LIVE SOUNDGARDEN!



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From: Kathie and David <oponfam@cnsnet.com>
Subject: Rethinking

Jen wrote:

>  It's one thing to not
> understand someone else's grief experience, to not be able to feel the
> same way they do.  It's quite another altogether to be deliberately
> cruel, to belittle someone, to kick them when they're down.  I don't
> care what the issue is, a band breakup, the death of a pet, the loss of
> a friend, anything that causes a person pain.  I'm no pollyanna and I
> never have been.  I'm at least as cynical as anybody, but it's a sad
> commentary on human nature isn't it.  We should all learn from this to
> be very careful with others' emotional attachments, even if they seem
> stupid or blown out of proportion to us.

I think this was a very important statement, Jen. Grief puts people in
an altered state and sometimes (many times) they say and do things that
may seem irrational. It seemed like people on the list were very
tolerant for the first few days, but then some started getting a little
testy. If someone says something in their grief that rubs you the wrong
way just try to understand that it was probably said in the heat of
emotion. We need to support each other now more than ever, especially
since it sounds like alot of people have virtually nowhere else to turn
for support.

That said, I wanted to clarify something I said the other day. I've been
thinking and thinking about my statements about the band *owing* us an
explanation and I have decided *owing* is not the right concept. They
certainly don't literally owe us anything (thanks deb;)), but I can't
help but think we do *deserve* at least a short press conference or
something, even if only to say "Yeah, we had some problems that we would
rather not elaborate on..." To me its an issue of personal
responsibility for ones actions. Even if they hated their position "in
the public eye" the fact is, that's where they were. This decision
didn't just affect them and their families and their place of employment
like it would if you or I quit our jobs; their decision affected
millions of people. And judging from some of the posts here it has
affected some people quite profoundly. I worked as a therapist and
people depended on me to be there. If I had a client who had been seeing
me for years and I just up and quit and had someone else tell that
client I wouldn't be coming back it would be considered unethical in my
line of work. Now granted, being a musician is a totally different
thing, but it seems to me like they took the easy way out, like they
chose to avoid dealing with the emotions their decision was sure to
generate. And if you use the analogy that someone else mentioned of
looking at it like a divorce involving children you would have to come
to the same conclusion. If the divorce involved children in the age
range represented here you better believe there would be some explaining
to do. I don't think its asking too much to want to hear something from
them. I imagine they are struggling with their own grief right now, but
I'm hoping that eventually they will decide to talk to us in some way. I
guess this is beating a dead horse at this point, but I just needed to
vent some more. I have this thing about *personal responsibility* (I
used to be an addictions counselor, maybe thats why). 
Anyway....whatever.

Kathie

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From: "Matt Cameron" <stimpy1@netvision.net.il>
Subject: come to #somms

#somms is open for buisness come join me my nick is chris_cornell
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From: eliza <epolly@one.net>
Subject: opinion please

well now that it is all over, i am thinking about all the SG things that i
didn't get yet that i want...so here is the question...is New Metal Crown
worth getting?  i know we probably talked about this eons ago, but
everything prior to Wednesday is a blur...*sigh*...

if anyone who has it could let me know, i would appreciate it
thanks
eliza



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I walk these streets alone, shadows hide my face
My sins are etched in stone, never to erase
My fears unshakeable, if I could believe
I'd trade these wings of gold, for what I really need
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From: "ARIE ELMALEH" <AELMALEH@netcom.ca>
Subject: sorry.....

Hi everyone, 
Sorry for bothering the list with this, but I made a careless mistake. 
Heather, I accidentally erased the message you sent me with your address. 
Could you please send it again?
Again, sorry for the inconvenience everybody.
- -Michelle

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From: SndGrdn45@aol.com
Subject: Am I too young?

I've been thinking.  Most of the people on this list are adults, some married
with kids.  I'm only 13 years old, and I don't know if I 've ever mentioned
this before.  Am I the youngest one on the list?  And if meet fellow
SOMMSters in NY, I think I'm gonna be the youngest one, which maked me feel
pretty stupid.  But, whatever.  I'm just so fuckin hurt by the breakup, I
just need people of any age to relate to.  even though I'm not as old as the
others, I've been listening to SG for a good number of years, I think 4
 years, I can't remember.  I'm just as heartbroken as everyone else. I
remeber my friends and family giving me SG CD's and stuff for my birthday and
X-mas and stuff.  Well, I just wanted to know.    

- -antonia

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From: Larry Grover <grover@musom01.mu.wvnet.edu>
Subject: a picture

The April issue of Hit Parader (Cobain cover) has a nice, color,
full-page pic of the guys toward the back.

Jen Grover

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From: Moon Druid <deadguy@interaccess.com>
Subject: The Wreck Is Going Down - The roots, rise, peak, and fall of grunge (Essay)

Well... that's the working title right there. The Wreck Is Going Down.
An essay on grunge. I won't send it here, because I don't want to clog
your mailboxes with my stuff involuntarily. But if you're interested in
the essay, email me.

It's worth a read.


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From: JesusCPose@aol.com
Subject: Re: ...the garden of sound is silent today...

Call me crazy but I saw Soundgarden with rocket from the crypt and tenderloin
at the aragon ballroom in chicago on November 9, 1996, the second to last
time I will probably ever see them play.

Jesus

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From: DodeRoad@aol.com
Subject: St. Pete Times

I have a great article on SG, if anybody wants me to type it up, and i'd
gladly do it for you. :)   It doesn't blame Ben for the breakup, it just says
that members walked off stage.  It names Rusty Cage and JCP as classic songs,
and overall it was a pretty good article... anybody want it?









                                                                       ~Kelly

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From: Slave4cc@aol.com
Subject: Re: come to #somms

Hello ;),

sorry I cant go to somms#  because I am a total computer IDIOT and the
undernet is like....heck if i know!

I would love to talk to you people in really really real, but im stuck with
dip-shititis. maybe its easier than i think, like, well im here anyways.

somebody help me, Im mental ~!! ;)~
carol *sigh*  



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From: Fiona Thiessen <fpthi1@student.monash.edu.au>
Subject: Re: Soundgarden Digest, Monday, 14 Apr 1997

Somebody wrote something about boycotting Hole's music b/c they read 
in Spin that she is getting Billy Corgan to write all her stuff. 

Hello? you honestly believe everything you read? Shit, many magazines 
that are in the same vein as Spin will write anything as long as it 
will get the reader into thinking that they have a "scoop" on an 
artist/band etc and thus you will think it is an informative mag and 
buy it. Notice how the front cover will use dramatic words, 
exclaimation marks etc.  to get you all excited about what's inside.  
Unless a band member of Hole stated it or BC himself,  I wouldn't even 
begin to give it any weight. 

(sorry this was not done personally)

Fiona 

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From: urbano <urbano@urbano.com.mx>
Subject: Re: Hey Sommsters.......remember this:

At 06:55 PM 13/04/97 +0930, you wrote:
>..........WE STILL HAVE THE MUSIC!!!!

 Yeah... we will have their music forever... but I've
 been thinking that every album (at least the last 3)
 have represented a very important stage in my life...
 Like for example Badmotorfinger has always been like
 my crazy nonsense youth's icon (mentally I'm an old 
 man, remember)...

 ... and that feeling of having an album for each step
 in my life is over... of course I can always try to
 remember what I felt when I heard those songs, those
 incredible moments... but that's it... no more album
 per phase of life...

... and I guess that's what hurts me more of this matter...

  well... just my dumb ideas :)
  urbano

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